No Labels

May 26th - I had plans to go hang w/ Thumper once I got off work at 10:30pm. He text me to say he wasnt feeling well and would I hate him if he cancelled. I said I wouldnt hate him but I would be disappointed. But he said he really wasnt feeling great and I never wanna push myself on someone when they dont feel good. I told him to feel better and let me know if things changed. At 10:15 he sent me a text saying he had taken a nap and felt better. He invited me back over but let me know we might not get any action. We could just chill. That was fine w/ me. Altho it further complicates the whole what are we label. Seriously...what are we? And of course I went over there and had a great time.

May 30th - I had a 1/2 day so we planned to hang after work. That night we laid in his bed talking and he was going on about people in bad relationships and why they dont just end it, etc. I felt really bad like I needed to tell him that Fat Guy and I were no longer together but I was so worried about him being weirded out. But I went ahead and broke the news to him. He took it really well actually. He has been an awesome friend and has really listened to me. Its nice. And he even made the comment now he can come see me sometimes. :-)
While we were laying there I also asked if he wanted to go swimming one weekend and we agreed on Saturday. All week I was looking forward to him coming to swim with me and my BFF. Its a little nerve wracking to have the 2 of them meet. I just need them to not hate each other. lol Make my life a WHOLE lot easier.

June 4 - We made arrangements Friday night for me to come get him around 12:30 Sat afternoon, and we made it to my gparents house at 1:30. My BFF's parents where also there so he got to meet them, my gparents and my BFF. We swam for a long time then finally was able to drag him outta the pool and we went and had dinner then back to his place. It was an awesome day. The only thing I was/am slightly eh about was we both crashed in his bed and we woke up at like 2:30 and we had a weird moment of I dont wanna leave but I cant invite myself to spend the night. Meh. I wasnt the end of the world, I went home and its fine but... I would have stayed if he would have asked. Oh well... I'm sure that will come in time. Its only been a month.

Cant wait till next weekend.
:-)